Celebrating Balmy and Snowy Christmases

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Where to begin. Hmm. In the beginning, when I was not quite three months old, my mother bundled me up and walked through the blowing snow with a friend to celebrate Christmas in a small Methodist church in Cuba, Missouri, where I was born. I caught pneumonia and nearly died, but it was a memorable Christmas that was retold every year when we celebrated as a family. It reminds me of how God intervened through a wise pharmacist to save my life. I count that year as my first snowy Christmas.

Through the years, I’ve had the privilege of experiencing Christmas in states from Michigan to Texas and California to Florida. I’ve celebrated balmy and snowy Christmases.

Kentwood, Michigan – 2007. My husband Mike and I bought the tallest Christmas tree we’d ever owned. No snow outside yet, but we usually had a white Christmas. See the photo of me below at Meijer Botanical Gardens in Grand Rapids.

No matter where my family lived when I was a child, the real tree magically appeared and was decorated on Christmas Eve, along with the arrival of wrapped presents from Santa on Christmas morning. I never questioned why we didn’t put up the tree earlier, but as I grew out of the Santa years, I learned it was because Christmas trees were deeply discounted the night before, as were toys and other goodies. Our stockings were always Daddy’s white work socks filled with oranges, nuts, and Brach’s hard red-and-white ribbon candy.

One of my most memorable Christmases was spent in a poor neighborhood in Dallas, Texas when it was bitter cold outside. I was a nosy nine-year-old and could play possum with the best. I had begged for a bicycle for almost a year but was told a bike was too expensive.

That’s me at Meijer Botanical Gardens. Yes, it snows a LOT in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

When my parents thought I was asleep, I heard clinks and clanks in the yard. I peeked out the window and saw my dad and older brother putting together a blue girl’s bike for me as snowflakes sprinkled their bare heads and stuck to their wool coats. Momma and Daddy had made the sacrifice of attending a police auction to buy a used bike that needed some work. After that night, I never took my gifts for granted.

My husband Mike and I were married in Northern California and lived there and in Southern California off and on. His parents lived in north county San Diego, and my mother-in-law worked on crocheting or making Christmas ornaments during the whole year to give as gifts at Christmas. Christmas Eve could be mild where they lived, so during the afternoon, we usually had the doors open and sat on the patio eating all the goodies she would spend days making: cookies, fudge, peanut brittle, the best fruit cake ever, and even homemade summer sausage. We snacked most of the afternoon, then ate a huge ham dinner. Talk about stuffed!

Vista, California – Christmas abt. 2002. My mother-in-law Betty Scott holding her great-granddaughter and namesake Rebecca Scott with our son David looking on.

While all the kids were young, Mike’s dad dressed up in possibly the worst Santa costume I’ve ever seen to hand out presents. That lasted until the kids figured out Grandpa was never in the room when Santa showed up and finally guessed he was jolly St. Nick.

My favorite activity during the season was driving to the San Diego harbor to watch the Christmas parade of boats decorated with elaborate light displays. It was usually chilly enough for a sweatshirt or jacket at night so near the water, but we didn’t mind.

Now we’re living in Florida and get to spend our first Christmas here with our grandchildren, 5-year-old Matthew, and 16-year-old Rebecca, the baby in the picture above.

The first thing Matthew wanted to know after we moved into our new home was where we stored our Christmas tree. Finally, I had to show him we had one on the shelf above the washer along with Great-Grandma’s ornaments that would be used to decorate it.

From left to right: David, Rebecca, Matthew, Ari, and Emmanuel (Emma)

You know, it’s really not important whether you have a snowy Christmas or a balmy one. What’s important is family. This year the holiday will come with 70+ degree weather, green grass and palm trees, and colorful flowers. Houses will still be decorated with lights. I’m looking forward to this Christmas, the warmest we’ve ever spent, not only because we live in South Florida, but because we’ll spend it with our grandkids and the rest of the family to celebrate the birth of the Christ child.

 


Barbara J. Scott, author of the RELUCTANT BRIDES series.

Barbara J. Scott is an inspirational author and editor with many years of publishing experience. Scott has written several novels and gift books with Thomas Nelson, Honor Books, Gilead Publishing, and now her first novel with Mountain Brook Ink, Dreams of My Heart. Barbara and her husband Mike live in the Nashville area. Visit her website at barbarajscott.com.

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Comments (21)

  1. Tina Myers

    Awesome story. There were 6 kids in our family. The tree always went up Christmas eve and when we all walked downstairs at 5 am there were gifts for all of us!!

  2. I love reading your Christmas memories Barbara! I have a huge family and remember gathering at my Grandma’s house for Christmas, she’d make almond bark covered pretzels, fudge, and have ribbon candy in her cut glass dishes around the house. My family overflowed her small house but it was so much fun & laughter! I miss those days, what precious memories.

    I’m also enjoying the Holiday blog tour and each stop. I relive getting to know authors this way. Thanks for participating! Hope you and your family have a blessed holiday season.

  3. Sirry, that’s suppose to read “really love getting to know authors this way. ” Autocorrect strikes again 🙂

  4. Melissa L

    Love your story. I have had snowy and rainey and sunny Christmases. The ones I have liked best are the ones celebrated with my husband and children.

  5. Lila Diller

    I still prefer a white Christmas, just because it’s been so rare. Though I grew up in Idaho, we normally had snow around Thanksgiving that melted before Christmas. Now I live in NC, and though we might get one or two snows a season, it’s only been on Christmas once in 13 years.

  6. Maria Dalmau

    Wonderful story! I am so enjoying getting to read all the authors beautiful memories and stories.

  7. Maria Dalmau

    Wonderful story! I’m so enjoying reading all the beautiful memories and stories.

  8. Tina, there were four kids in our family. I can still remember my sister sneaking under the tree and shaking presents in the middle of the night to guess what was inside. lol

  9. Trixi, I hope you and yours have a blessed Christmas holiday as well! Thanks for participating in the MBI blog tour. Since my dad was the youngest in his family, and my grandmother lived so far away, I don’t remember ever celebrating Christmas at her house when I was a child. But my mother-in-law was the queen of Christmas. She really went all out to make the holiday memorable for our family.

  10. Melissa, thanks! Glad you entered the contest on our blog tour. I’m with you. No matter where my husband and I lived, he always made it special. Have a Merry Christmas!

  11. Lila, snow makes Christmas special, but like you, we could never count on it. I’ve often wondered what it’s like to celebrate Christmas in Australia. There it’s a summer holiday! Thanks for your comment.

  12. Maria, I think we should share our stories more often with friends and strangers. Often we’re reluctant, but it’s how God made us…to connect and love one another. Jesus was the ultimate storyteller, wasn’t He? Have a blessed Christmas season.

  13. ali

    Happy Holidays loved reading your blog and so happy you got your bike sweet story. This piece was so beautifully written I love the winter and a white Christmas at home with the family.

  14. ponyexpressministry

    Thank you for sharing your memories, Barbara. I agree, it doesn’t matter where we are when we celebrate Christmas, how wealthy we are (or not), or, in our case, when we celebrate, if not on the actual Day. It’s all about family being together and celebrating the reason we all come together—Jesus. 🙂

  15. Susan P

    We live just outside of GR, Michigan and we have had snow for about two weeks already!! I love living here and grew up with the great snowy MI winters. Thanksgiving and Christmas are always better with snow and family!

  16. Linda R Orr

    Sorry to comment so late. Your link was not working that day and I just saw the message where it was fixed.

    This is a wonderful article. I’m sure at the time we probably thought we were not getting much, but as I look back and now that my parents are gone, I too realize the sacrifices they made for me. I would give anything to have a Christmas like that again if I could have them back too.

  17. Susan P

    I think cyber gremlins got my first comment! So forgive me if it shows up twice. LOL. We live just outside of GR, Michigan and we love our snowy winters! It has already been snowing here for two weeks, which is awesome to me. I love just having family around during the holidays – no matter where we actually are. 🙂

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